Grace and Makka – a journey to independence

Grace and Makka – a journey to independence

For Grace, the biggest challenge wasn’t the coursework. It was everything around it, the travel, the crowds, the being away from home without her mum by her side.

Before Makka, Grace had made it through her first year of college relying on a local-authority-funded taxi, door to door, and couldn’t go out anywhere without her mum. Grace said, “I struggled every day, I was on end, trying to get through my course with very little support.”

Her mum, Toni, remembers the uncertainty as Grace prepared to move up to Level 2.

“I don’t feel that she’d have been able to cope with all the stresses and strains of travelling. We weren’t sure how she’d cope with Level 2, or indeed whether she’d actually finish a year.”

Makka joined the family three weeks before term started, exactly when Grace needed him most. As Grace was studying Animal Management and working closely with small animals, he first had to prove he could stay calm and unpredatory around them. “We couldn’t have wished for Makka to be a better match to Grace,” Toni said. “He’s very gentle, very laid back, quite dopey, bless him. But also quite on the ball, and knows just when to interact with Grace.”

At college, Makka became Grace’s constant, giving her deep pressure therapy when overwhelmed, guiding her to a trusted staff member to re-regulate, and interrupting self-injurious behaviours like picking or nail-biting. He learned her boundaries too.

“I don’t like people in my space or touching me. Makka will block behind me to stop people coming too close, or will ‘orbit’ circle round me to keep people away.”

For the first year of their partnership, Grace still relied on the taxi. Then, bit by bit, Makka gave her back her independence. Eighteen months in, she began travelling home from college alone; within another year, she was making the outward journey too, most days on two buses each way.

“There is no way I could’ve done this without the support of my dog. We have come so far.”

That independence has only grown. Grace now travels to appointments, runs errands, and visits friends who’ve moved away, often navigating long or unfamiliar routes with Makka at her side. Once, when her mainline station in London was closed, she rerouted across the city with Makka, a sat-nav, and her mum on the phone. “This would never have been possible without Makka,” Toni said.

Grace went on to complete six years of college, gaining two Level 3 qualifications. She now works with horses, and is self-employed.

“Mac has radically transformed our life as a family, because he enables Grace to have the independence that any 20-something wants. She goes to work now, she has her own business, and she is her own person, rather than being somebody accompanied by a family member.”

Grace puts it simply:

“He’s my constant, my soul mate, my best friend.”

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Grace tells us what her life is like with Makka

 

Thomas and Megan – finding focus, every day

Thomas and Megan – finding focus, every day

For Thomas, school used to be a place where everything happened at once, and nothing stayed still long enough to make sense.

Before Megan, walking into school meant entering a building full of noise, movement and unpredictability, with no way to filter it all out. Thomas would come home overwhelmed, unable to regulate, and the meltdowns that followed were as hard on his family as they were on him.

Thomas describes it simply: before Megan, school “just wasn’t as comfortable.” He got nervous. He couldn’t tell what deserved his attention and what didn’t, as everything was happening all at once, everywhere. That changed when Megan arrived.

“Megan’s just been a lifesaver. She’s been brilliant. I just have this lovely ball of fluff which I can stroke. It’s really calming, stroking Megan in lessons, and there’s something to do with my arms when I’m listening in lessons.”

It’s Megan’s quiet, constant presence that makes the difference. When Thomas’s attention starts to drift to either a noise down the corridor, or a conversation two rooms away, anything but the lesson in front of him, Megan pulls him back.

“Megan brings my thoughts back into the lesson instead of them drifting away to wherever it is. The Megan magnet just draws my attention back into the moment. It’s been really helpful in lessons.”

Thomas’s Teaching Assistant has watched the change happen first-hand both in his grades and in him.

“He has breaks during the exam, and he’ll take a break and then he’ll go on the floor and Megan will come over to him and he’ll just lie with Megan. He regulates himself. Then he’ll have a few minutes and he gets back up again.”

Thomas has moved from an average set in Maths to the top of the top set. He is also heading into the top set for GCSE English, which is a significant achievement for a student who is both autistic and dyslexic. For his Teaching Assistant, witnessing just how much difference one dog can make has been quite extraordinary.

“It’s just absolutely magical to see. It’s just so emotional. He’s just really changed. Megan has just really changed his life.”

Thomas’s story is proof that the right support at the right moment can turn a school day from something to survive into something a young person can actually thrive in.

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Thomas explains what school life is like now he has Megan

 

TNL Community Fund

TNL Community Fund

National Lottery Communities Fund Grant

We are so pleased to announce that we have been awarded £17,160 from The National Lottery Community Fund to support the creation of life-changing partnerships between the autistic people on our waiting list and our fully trained autism assistance dogs specially selected for them.

Clover has made an enormous difference to Holly’s life, both in terms of leaving the house and her emotional wellbeing. Before Clover was placed with Holly, she would rarely leave her room or interact with others which has significantly improved since she has had Clover. She has gained independence and the confidence to do new things.

Holly’s Mum

Our mission is to empower autistic people to achieve their goals, improve access to their chosen communities and to enhance their emotional and physical wellbeing. We are so grateful for grants like this because they help us to continue to carry out the vital work we do. Thank you so much to everyone who plays the Lottery and to the National Lottery Community Fund for supporting our cause.

June Fenn

June Fenn

June’s Charity Skydive in Support of DFA 

We are so grateful to June, who has recently completed her third major fundraising challenge with a charity skydive in support of Dogs for Autism and Dementia-Friendly Alton. June, now 92, has previously taken part in a microlight flight over Anglesey to celebrate her 90th birthday and an abseil down the Spinnaker Tower, both supporting local causes. Her remarkable fundraising journey has even been featured in the national press. Read her full, adrenaline-filled story from the weekly magazine Best here.

June’s most recent fundraiser was a Skydive from 10,000 feet, which is 30 seconds of freefall at 25 mph. Through this, she has already raised more than £1,500, which will be shared between Dogs for Autism and Dementia-Friendly Alton. June’s fundraising page is still live until Friday 31st July 2026, so if you wish to show your support for June’s bravery, you are able to do so here.  

Both charities do outstanding work, providing invaluable support to individuals and families in our community, and I would love to raise even more to help them continue making a difference.”- June 

We are delighted to have been selected as one of June’s chosen charities for her skydive and our honoured to be a charity that June considers close to her heart. 

June Fenn Skydive

On behalf of everyone at Dogs for Autism and the families whose lives are changed by our dogs, we would like to say a massive thank you to June for her courage and kindness.  As a charity, we rely on the support of individuals like June, businesses and community partners. Their generosity helps us provide life-changing autism assistance dogs to autistic individuals across the UK, free of charge. 

If you have been inspired by June’s story and want to start fundraising yourself, please check out our 100 Heroes page; every pound raised helps us change lives.

Video and images courtesy of GoSkydive.

Philip Jackson

Philip Jackson

Thank you to everyone who supported our Philip Jackson Open Gardens event.
Thanks to your generosity, the day was a tremendous success and raised valuable funds to help us continue providing autism assistance dogs to autistic people across the UK.

Thank you once again to everyone who attended and supported Dogs for Autism.

Video courtesy of J P Morley-Smith.